Cleaving - Clinging to your significant other as your new rock and foundation
- Able to achieve oneness in your decision making, even when you begin from differing viewpoints
- Able to achieve oneness in your priorities, even though you've come together from backgrounds that could hardly be more different
- Able to achieve oneness in your sexual affections toward each other, even if either or both of you have memories of other partners in your past
Is there a "leaving" issue you haven't been brave enough to conquer yet? Confess it to your significant other today, and resolve to make it right. The oneness of your relationship is dependent upon it. Follow this with a commitment to your relationship the top priority over every other human relationship.
Has this been a hard thing for you to deal with? How has it affected your relationship? If the worse offender in this area is your significant other (with your in-laws). how can you lovingly move this toward a better situation?